10 Qualities of a Total Winner
Quality 1: Positive Self-Expectancy
"Life is a self fulfilling prophecy. True winners go into every event expecting to win." One of the qualities of being a total winner is positive self expectancy. Having that positive optimism in everything you do. Also having the thought of success in your mind. Never going into something and thinking that you are going to fail. Having the mindset that you will win no matter what it takes. Positive self expectancy is also a self fulfilling prophecy. This means that everything you do you have to make it your legacy. One way to implement this to my life is by always expecting to win. Also by having that drive to work hard to reach success. One person that comes to mind when talking about winning is Micheal Jordan. He went to the finals six times as a Bull and won the championship all six times. To me he is the definition of positive self expectancy. He was know as the goat Greatest Of All Time. Always be a true winner!
Quality 2: Positive Self-Motivation
"True winners dig deep and find motivation inside themselves to get through that tough task or to learn a new skill." Overcoming adversity and digging deep within yourself to be great is something that often times is hard to do, we have to find it in ourselves to continue to fight through and never give up. When life hits us hard or even knocks us down we can't just face defeat and give up, we must stand back up and find that self motivation to keep going. One example of this is through the all-time great basketball player, Kobe Bryant. One of the qualities of being a total winner is having positive self motivation. People that have this trait are more likely to succeed because they have the motivation. Sometimes when I am not in the best mood I tend to keep it to myself and hurts my motivation. That's something I need to improve upon on. I have to dig deep to find my true motivation. Someone that I think has self motivation is Kobe Bryant. He always wants the last shot. He has not only motivated himself but he also motivated others like Dion Waiters who said a similar quote "I rather go 0 for 30 than 0 for 9.
Quality 3: Positive Self-Image
True winners are confident and view themselves as competent, valuable human beings. When you're a true winner, confidence is key. It is the primal assest that you will possess that will ensure that in anything you do or are set up to do you will conquer it and achieve it with ease and confidence. Confidence makes you proud of yourself to do the right job. Confidence will drive you to your most accomplishing goals and it will place at the top of success. When you don't have confidence you are most likely to feel and be insecure about yourself, your skills, and the possiblities that you can do. You will not be able to trust yourself to the fullest extent to do something because the majority of the time you will be hesitant of your own capabilities. Try and stay ahead of the pack with confidence!
You gotta have direction if you are going to go anywhere. True winners know where they are going. Their sense of direction comes from the self and not from outside influences like parents or friends. Having positive self direction is a quality of being a total winner. By having a direction and knowing where you want to go. The direction comes from the yourself not anyone else. No outside influences like friends that are trying to sway you in a different path. For example, friends can influence you in where you go to school. Maybe one is got accepted to a UC but does not accept it because they want to be with there friends at a CSU. One person that I see doing this is Kobe Bryant his direction was work hard to win a championship. This was his passion and that is why he won 5 NBA titles. I try to handle myself in that way. In a sense of not letting others around me tell me different. This keeps me mature because I am handling my own business. Being your own boss makes you more responsible and having self direction allows you to mold your future.
You have to discipline yourself or else someone else will discipline you into doing what they want you to do. Total winners have the power to discipline and take control of their lives. Having Positive self discipline is a great quality because it shows you can control yourself. You are a very calm and collected person nothing really phases you. You have to teach yourself or else someone will teach you. Winners in this society have the power to take control of their lives. I try to discipline myself to always be responsible. I do this by keeping myself accountable for any actions I have done. Someone that has self discipline everyday are teachers. They have to deal with students all day.
Your mood and outlook on life affect the way you see the world and how you interact in it. Total winners are positive, powerful people who make people feel good and provide a good vibe to those around him/her. Having Positive self esteem is great because you don't get demoralized easily. Always having that feel good attitude. Positive self esteem helps you with making new friends because everyone will want to around you. This gives you a vibe that makes everyone around feel good. Always having that feel good type of vibe on the outlook of the world. I try to stay positive and have the positive outlook of the world but sometimes I'm just not feeling it. I need to improve that aspect of my life. Having the good attitude on life never being down. One person that relates to this is Meta World Peace. He a very charismatic person ever since he has retired. He always has a smile on his face no matter what. I want to be like him because he is a very likable person.
Total winners like in the present. They know that now is all there is. They don’t get caught up in the past or worry about the future. They simply handle the business that they can handle which is the stuff going on today, now. To have positive self dimension is always living in the present never in the past. Its always going forward and never backward. Just being able to control what you can control. Don't force anything just let come natural. Living in the present whether or not the past was good or bad. If the past was good then you will getting caught up in the past and only think about your pass success. When in reality you should be thinking what you could be doing now. If it was a bad pass then challenge yourself to do better and leave all the negativity behind you. Strive to be a better person now not later. One person I can think of that lives in the moment is Lebron James. He is always trying to stay focus. Even when the media talks about possible destinations for him next summer. He always answers Ill do that when the time comes.
Quality 9: Positive Self-Awareness
Total winners are aware of their power. They understand that they can be anything with enough effort and determination. Positive self awareness is a great quality because it shows that you know that you have power. They know they can do anything with the right mindset. People who are self aware are more likely to be successful because they know how to be determined and put in the effort. I try to have positive self awareness because I always try to be determined. Being aware of what is best for you is very beneficial to yourself, keeping yourself on track and your mind in the right place is very important. You don't want to wander off somewhere else and end up on the wrong path. Stay focused and aware because if you don't it'll cost you your success, time, effort, and energy!
Quality 10: Positive Action
Quality 4: Positive Self-Direction
You gotta have direction if you are going to go anywhere. True winners know where they are going. Their sense of direction comes from the self and not from outside influences like parents or friends. Having positive self direction is a quality of being a total winner. By having a direction and knowing where you want to go. The direction comes from the yourself not anyone else. No outside influences like friends that are trying to sway you in a different path. For example, friends can influence you in where you go to school. Maybe one is got accepted to a UC but does not accept it because they want to be with there friends at a CSU. One person that I see doing this is Kobe Bryant his direction was work hard to win a championship. This was his passion and that is why he won 5 NBA titles. I try to handle myself in that way. In a sense of not letting others around me tell me different. This keeps me mature because I am handling my own business. Being your own boss makes you more responsible and having self direction allows you to mold your future.
Quality 5: Positive Self-Control
Total winners can sacrifice immediate pleasure for a gain in the future. Delayed gratification is of immense value in reaching your goals.
Having positive self control is a great quality because it shows that you are always calm and collective. Many people are not like that. They want things now and want the reward. Self control helps you in the future and not really the now part. For example, If an NBA team trades its superstar player because he couldn't win a championship. The team will decline a little but the team that he was traded to offered 2 first round unprotected picks. Obviously the team will lose more games but that means they will have a high pick because of the trade and with that pick let say they draft a superstar. Now they are in the same boat but with an extra pick. This gives the team to draft another superstar with there top pick. And let say again they hit on the pick and get a superstar. That means they have two superstars. This show self control because they could of kept that lone superstar but they traded him for a chance of two superstars. They hit on both picks and now have a better chance of winning the championship in the upcoming years.
Quality 6: Positive Self-Discipline
You have to discipline yourself or else someone else will discipline you into doing what they want you to do. Total winners have the power to discipline and take control of their lives. Having Positive self discipline is a great quality because it shows you can control yourself. You are a very calm and collected person nothing really phases you. You have to teach yourself or else someone will teach you. Winners in this society have the power to take control of their lives. I try to discipline myself to always be responsible. I do this by keeping myself accountable for any actions I have done. Someone that has self discipline everyday are teachers. They have to deal with students all day.
Quality 7: Positive Self-Esteem
Your mood and outlook on life affect the way you see the world and how you interact in it. Total winners are positive, powerful people who make people feel good and provide a good vibe to those around him/her. Having Positive self esteem is great because you don't get demoralized easily. Always having that feel good attitude. Positive self esteem helps you with making new friends because everyone will want to around you. This gives you a vibe that makes everyone around feel good. Always having that feel good type of vibe on the outlook of the world. I try to stay positive and have the positive outlook of the world but sometimes I'm just not feeling it. I need to improve that aspect of my life. Having the good attitude on life never being down. One person that relates to this is Meta World Peace. He a very charismatic person ever since he has retired. He always has a smile on his face no matter what. I want to be like him because he is a very likable person.
Quality 8: Positive Self-Dimension
Total winners like in the present. They know that now is all there is. They don’t get caught up in the past or worry about the future. They simply handle the business that they can handle which is the stuff going on today, now. To have positive self dimension is always living in the present never in the past. Its always going forward and never backward. Just being able to control what you can control. Don't force anything just let come natural. Living in the present whether or not the past was good or bad. If the past was good then you will getting caught up in the past and only think about your pass success. When in reality you should be thinking what you could be doing now. If it was a bad pass then challenge yourself to do better and leave all the negativity behind you. Strive to be a better person now not later. One person I can think of that lives in the moment is Lebron James. He is always trying to stay focus. Even when the media talks about possible destinations for him next summer. He always answers Ill do that when the time comes.Quality 9: Positive Self-AwarenessTotal winners are aware of their power. They understand that they can be anything with enough effort and determination. Positive self awareness is a great quality because it shows that you know that you have power. They know they can do anything with the right mindset. People who are self aware are more likely to be successful because they know how to be determined and put in the effort. I try to have positive self awareness because I always try to be determined. Being aware of what is best for you is very beneficial to yourself, keeping yourself on track and your mind in the right place is very important. You don't want to wander off somewhere else and end up on the wrong path. Stay focused and aware because if you don't it'll cost you your success, time, effort, and energy!
Quality 10: Positive Action
Total winners take positive action in their business and with their friends and family. They are uplifting and motivating individuals who inspire the best from themselves and other.To have positive self action is by always seeing the business aspect of it. Having positive action allows you make people's day better. You will inspire them to their best. I try to have positive action so that everyone around me has a good day. One person I know who is always putting everyone in a good mood is my teacher Mr.Haymore. He is always in great uplifting mood. I appreciate everything he does to keep a positive mindset. I strive to be like him all my life. People that have positive action take action and are always positive in whatever they do. They always have positive action towards their families and family. Like Mr. Haymore his positive action has always been teaching us important and beneficial character quality skills that can motivate and drive us toward the path of success. To always be a CTR person in your heart and mind will always take you far!
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